Answer:
Feelings of worthlessness, loneliness, and/or anger often occur with depression, but fade with effective treatment.
See section 2, at
http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page R first. Use the 7 core treatments, and consider taking either St. John's wort, one of the top 2 NATURAL PRODUCTS, or one of the OTHER supplements, such as inositol, or SAMe, but it is unwise to use any of the latter with antidepressants, without medical advice, particularly the wort (serotonin syndrome risk).
Choose to be optimistic, and maintain a positive attitude. Also see, as applicable, young women's depression, page V: WOMEN TO WOMEN, teen depression, and eventually the rest of section 2. Take the depression quiz on page J, in section 2, at ezy build, and if positive, print, and take to your doctor, to eliminate medical causes.
Read: "Lift your mood now." by John D Preston, Psy.D. 2001, New Harbinger Publications, Inc., 5674 Shattuck Avenue, Oakland. CA (short, 5 - 10 mn. chapters; easily immediately implemented), & "Feeling Good - the new mood therapy" by David D. Burns, from your bookstore, or Amazon.com (read next; skip parts which don't apply; read them later; it's VERY comprehensive).
Most people are suggestible, to some degree, so you could either seek professional hypnotherapy, or, quicker, cheaper, and more conveniently:
http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com enter "Self Consciousness", and
http://www.hypnotictapes.com/ has: STRANGERS and/or FOREIGNERS,
OVERCOME FEAR OF (Xenophobia)
Say you are sorry about betraying her confidence, and that all you can say is that you thought you were doing the right thing, at the time, but you now realise that you were wrong, and that it won't happen again, but later, if she feels like it, you have some resources that you can direct her to; otherwise you won't mention the subject again.
RAPE: Go to:
http://vaonlinesupport.org/support.html &
http://www.rapevictimadvocates.org/ & www.rape-victim-support.com/ &
http://www.rainn.org/ &
http://www.aftersilence.org &
http://www.pandys.org & www.rapecrisis.org.uk Call (USA)1 800 656 HOPE and/or People Against Rape (USA) on 1 800 877 7252. View
http://www.coolnurse.com/hotline.htm (US freecalls).